There are many systems and approaches to having sex. Over the year’s scholars, sex workers, artists and the very popular Kama sutra have invented so many sex styles and positions that are to a great extent, logically weird. All for the sole purpose of enhancing the sexual experience between two or more partakers of this beautiful act called lovemaking.
Are you aware that there are over 100 different sex positions, It doesn’t stop there, Many expensive and cheap sex dolls, vibrators, dildos, and other sex devices have been invented, all in a vain to magnify the psychological and emotional gratification that can be derived from intercourse.
All these inventions and yet statistically speaking, most women do not have a satisfying and fulfilling sex life. The reason behind this is not farfetched. The society we live in has in some way branded the topic of sex as a field that shouldn’t be discussed publicly.
Moreso our cultural and social conditioning that mandates that a lady’s genital should be kept in the dark has not only caused women to be somewhat detached from their sexual organs but also from their orgasmic experience.
These and many more, are factors that have aided in shutting down a woman’s capable ability to experience orgasm every time she has sex. But what if I told you—that there is a guaranteed way of making a lady have an orgasm every time you have sex. It is called the art of orgasmic meditation through the process of slow sex.
What is Orgasmic Meditation
This is simply an act—-art that involves two people exploring their genitals by means of stroking the key sexual organ. For the most part, we are going to be speaking and laying much emphasis on the ladies, because they are the ones that find it the hardest to achieve orgasm. This is usually practiced for no longer than 15 minutes. And it should be noted, that this practise is not geared towards making a lady climax but rather excavate the hidden and buried sexuality buried in every lady.
Requesting for Orgasmic Meditation
It is very much possible for a lady to feel a world of sensation in just one stroke when practicing OM. Scratch that—let me rephrase it—-all the joy, disappointments, rejection, happiness, love, that are part of our sexual and real-life, can all be felt in one stroke of the finger when performing OM.
This makes it a very difficult and challenging task for one partner to ask their spouse or lover. Because that is where they get to surrender all of themselves to you, and actually break every wall (both interior and external) to share an intimate experience with you.
Getting Into the Right Frame of Mind
Many often times we approach sex from a position of hunger. We are usually more interested in the destination rather than the road that leads to that destination. You will find that if and when OM is approached with this strategy, one will more or less not gain anything useful in the whole performance.
One way to help savor the whole process and start to relax into the whole exercise is to go through the trouble of setting up the arena intended for the practice of orgasmic meditation.
Women by nature have the psychological and emotional need to feel safe and secure before they can afford the luxury of relaxing and getting into the right frame of mind and a very much saturated sexual disposition.
Preparing the OMing space
Both parties should take the time to arrange the pillows, blankets, yoga mats or duvet, timer, lubrication, candles, etc. It should, however, be noted that the bulk of the responsibility should fall on the male counterparts.
As you start the arrangement of your desired space, you will start to notice the sexual tension slowly building up, and at that point, everything seems to slow down, to point where you begin to notice some sexual feelings about yourself that you haven’t taken the time to notice. However, it is not to say that it is going to be easy and that after the first time you practice this beautiful art—-it is going to magically unlock hidden sexualities that have stayed buried for years. It is a gradual process.
This is perhaps one of the most crucial parts of orgasmic meditation. After both parties are seated and are in position, the male or female partner, for the first three to four minutes—takes the time to describe the genital exactly the way he or she sees it. It is important that a partner describing this genital should avoid words of flattery, but rather should describe with words of color, shape, size, and location.
They should also avoid giving an interpretation of what they feel the pussy looks like (this because most oftentimes, people will give a description of what they feel a pussy ought to look like—the brain can be tricky).
This is a particularly difficult experience for the ladies, owing mostly to the fact that unlike men, who have been raised with a sense of pride for their genitals, women have the very opposite. Most women had been subconsciously conditioned to believe their genitals are weird looking, messy and by a long shot ugly. This is why orgasmic meditation should be practiced by all women.