As ubiquitous as phone sex is these days, it\u2019s still surprising that many of us feel like we\u2019re just plain bad at it. Don\u2019t get discouraged though, you can still spice up your LDR or long term relationship with just a little help from the pros. We talked to the queens of sexy chat at Indian Sex Talk, India\u2019s number one provider of the in-demand service of phone sex.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
More surprisingly still, these ladies are so good at what they do, that even taking pointers from them was a breath of sexy, fresh air. They\u2019ve given us the top five pointers on what to say to keep the conversation going smooth, and get both you and your partner, firmly within the city limits of O-Town.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Sometimes, when you\u2019re trying out any new sexy maneuver, it can be a bit intimidating. To avoid getting \u201cstuck\u201d in a narrative, or trailing off into an awkward silence- remember that you are sexy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Get yourself in the mood beforehand by donning some ultra-sexy lingerie or putting on your favorite getting busy soundtrack. \u201cThe key to great phone sex is not only being able to create new narratives, but also being able to follow the lead you\u2019re being given.\u201d Says Riya, a 27-year-old operator from Delhi. \u201cBeing able to really listen to what your partner is saying is super important. They will tell you how sexy they think you are and how excited they are for what\u2019s happening: take that in and let it move the conversation along naturally.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Phone sex is all about fantasy. It\u2019s about being able to play with all the naughty little thoughts that bounce around in your imagination throughout the day. Whether you\u2019re talking about \u201cthat one time at the movies\u201d or imagining something dirty that you haven\u2019t done yet, it\u2019s perfectly okay to embellish.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Kiara, a 21-year-old phone sexpert says \u201cfantasy is the best part of mutually enjoyable phone sex. Your minds can take you to places that you\u2019d never dream of going in real life. That\u2019s what makes it so much fun, because on the phone, you can go places that you would never even think about going otherwise.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The regal momma of the phone sex hotline, Sai, reminds everyone to \u201cset your boundaries early. If there\u2019s something you\u2019re not comfortable talking about- speak up!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It\u2019s perfectly okay to change the narrative<\/a> or move the conversation to something that you both can enjoy.\u201d Which is great advice for any first timer. It\u2019s unlikely that you\u2019ll disappoint your partner even if you\u2019re not particularly impressed by the fantasy they\u2019re bringing to the table.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Just topic hop in a sexy way until you reach a place that gets you both going. Never feel the need to participate in sexual conversation that makes you feel uncomfortable or on edge.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Arabian Nights isn\u2019t the only tale that can take years to talk out. Just because you start the phone sex game doesn\u2019t mean you have to, or should, finish it. Sometimes, being left hanging is more sexually intensive than the orgasm itself!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n \u201cThe best phone sex between couples is the conversation that makes you ache to get back home\u201d Pihu, 32, tells us. \u201cIf you have already reached a climax, the animalistic need to see your partner may be diminished.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n There\u2019s always something very sexy about leaving your audience wanting more. Whether it ends with a sexy \u2018to be continued..\u2019 or a more abrupt \u2018I have a meeting I can\u2019t possibly miss\u2019 set yourself up to be in high demand with not divulging all of your secrets every time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Possibly the best part about DIY phone sex is that you can always up the ante with a naughty picture or heading straight into the hottest realm of FaceTime video sex.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Feel free to strike up the conversation by sending occasional flirty texts out of the blue. If you really want to paint a clear picture of what you\u2019re after, there\u2019s no need for the ultra-obvious \u201cphone sex?\u201d Text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Instead, start with a few minor lay revealing snaps<\/a> or some suggestive photos of your bedroom littered with your lingerie and a sex toy or two. \u201cPhone sex isn\u2019t always about what <\/em>you say. In fact, it\u2019s most often about how you frame the discussion in the first place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n If you know what your SO is into, send them a message with an acknowledgement to those things. Like, if he\u2019s a leg man, then send him a sexy pic of those stems!\u201d Brilliant advice from ever stunning, 20-year-old Avni.<\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" As ubiquitous as phone sex is these days, it\u2019s still surprising that many of us feel like we\u2019re just plain bad at it. Don\u2019t get discouraged though, you can still spice up your LDR or long term relationship with just a little help from the pros. We talked to the queens of sexy chat at…<\/p>\n Read More<\/span> Phone Sex Tips for Girls: Advice From the Pros<\/span><\/a>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":41899,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"Layout":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"Phone Sex Tips for Girls: Advice From the Pros #PhoneSex #Girls #SexTalk #Sex #Tips","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[4609],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/phone-sex-talk.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41894"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41894"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45932,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41894\/revisions\/45932"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/41899"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsilike.in\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Leave Them Wanting More<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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